Tuesday, July 19, 2011

Kerigan's birth story

I wanted to share a little bit about Kerigan's birthday, so we will always remember the special day she came into the world!  We had scheduled a c-section for July 12, and I just kept crossing my fingers that I would make it to that date, since big brother Andrew came so early, I just expected that she would too!  I had tried to schedule the date for July 16, which is a special day because it is Ga Ga's birthday.  This year, the 16th landed on a Saturday, so I was disappointed they wouldn't be able to deliver her that day.  So I picked the 12th, because it was the closest to the 16th on a day my doctor would be delivering.

We got up bright and early that morning.  Ga Ga had spent the night with us the night before so that Andrew was taken care of.  I was so excited, showered and got ready for my special day!  I couldn't wait to meet my girl!

We went to the hospital for a 9:00 c-section, so we arrived about 6:45am.  They got us all settled into a room and got me all ready for the surgery.  Daddy got to wear the attractive scrubs, too!
Can you see through his shirt- "World's Greatest Dad!"  Ha!
We were already to go, and shortly before 9:00, they kept having people come in for emergency c-sections.  There were triplets that needed to be born, and there were two other moms who needed surgery right away.  I just felt fortunate that my daughter was healthy.  Even though I was frustrated and couldn't wait to meet my daughter, I felt so blessed to be the one with the healthy child this time.  I could certainly relate to those other mother's situations, because the same thing had happened to me when Andrew was born.  The doctor came in to tell us it would be at least another 2 hours.  I wanted to cry, because I just wanted to meet my sweet daughter.  I remember rolling over in bed to rest for a while (since I had only slept about 4 hours the night before because I was so excited!), and within 30 minutes they came back in to get us.  So it ended up being quicker than we thought, and we were so happy.
The surgery took longer than I remembered, or maybe it was because I was so anxious to hear that little cry.  I just kept laying there, holding Craig's hand, looking at him, and feeling just overwhelmed with joy.  I couldn't believe that the time had come.  The best sound was her little cry.  Tears just streamed down my face as the doctor held her up so I could see her.  The doctor said "Wow, she's beautiful," and everyone in the room was making comments about her hair!  She was the most beautiful thing I had ever seen.  I could not stop crying.  
First family photo (minus big brother!)
I kept asking Craig if she was okay.  I just wanted to hear them say "yes."  They took her over and Craig cut the umbilical cord.  I sent the camera with Craig and I had told him to take a million pictures, which he did!  Ha!  I had regretted not having the camera when Andrew was born, so I wanted to make up for it!  I think we took 500+ pictures just from our 3 days in the hospital!  Ha!  Craig went with her to the nursery and took about a million more pictures.  I was so proud of him!
I couldn't believe how much she weighed!  I was carrying around an 8lb baby!  No wonder I was so huge and ready to pop!  They told us later that her skin was very peely, which meant she was "well cooked!"  Ha!  They said she was very ready to be born, and really could have come a week earlier.  She was just happy all scrunched up inside mama!  Ha!
The best news came when they listened to her heart and confirmed that it was perfect.  I just breathed a huge sigh of relief (and cried some more!)
I still can't believe how big she looks!  How in the world was she inside me??  Ha!
I just could not take my eyes off her- she was so beautiful.  All the nurses and doctors who came in and out that day commented on how adorable she was.  And of course, how much hair she had!
This was the moment that I had been anticipating ever since I found out I was pregnant.  I could not wait for big brother to meet his little sister.  I just couldn't imagine how special it was going to be.
He was so excited to see her, and he looked so proud walking through the door with his little rose he picked out for her, and the bear he made for her.  I could just cry looking at these pictures.  He was so sweet this day.  I never want to forget it.
He got right up in bed with us and just fell in love with her the second he saw her.
He was just so sweet and gentle with her.  He kept putting his arms around her and he could not stop smiling.  There was not a hint of jealousy (I knew there wouldn't be!), and he was just thrilled to have her here.
He gave her the bear he made for her.  He was very excited to do this.  I think he thought she was supposed to play with it though!  Ha!
Of course, the pediatrician was there at that moment so they wanted to take her back to the nursery to be checked over.  I was not real thrilled with the timing of this, since Andrew had just gotten there.  This is what Andrew did when they walked in to get her.  Ha!  He was not happy, and not afraid to let them know it!
This is what he did when they took her away from me.  Ha!  We just cracked up.  We had to promise him she would be right back.
When she came back she was showered with love from Ga Ga...
and Papa.
And daddy.
And of course, big brother!  He just wanted to keep holding her.  I love how his legs are crossed and he looks so comfortable!  Ha!
Kerigan had her first bath that afternoon.  Andrew got to "help."  She didn't really like her bath too much!  But I just loved getting her all cleaned up and snuggly!
When she came back from the nursery the next morning, the nurses had fixed her hair and put a sweet little bow in it!  It just made me want to cry it was so sweet, because when I was a baby, the nurses did the same thing to me! (I had the exact same hair as Kerigan when I was born!)
Big brother came back the next day too, and Kerigan gave him the gift she had for him- the Kung Fu Panda he had been begging us for!  Can you see the excitement in his eyes?  I wish we would have video taped his reaction.  He was so excited.
He had to give her a kiss!  He was so happy.  It was so precious, this day when they were leaving and he was telling everyone goodbye and giving hugs and kisses, he leaned over to Kerigan and whispered to her "Thank you for my panda."  It was the sweetest.thing.ever.
Andrew came every day to see Kerigan.  He had so much fun staying with Ga Ga and Papa while we were in the hospital.  And he was always excited to come and see his sister.
Sharing secrets already!

I had talked with the pediatrician about having Andrew's cardiologist come look at Kerigan, just to make sure everything was okay.  Not that I didn't trust them when they listened to her, but I just wanted to be 100% sure!  Andrew's awesome cardiologist, Dr. Mooradian, made a special trip for us and came to do her echo (ultrasound of her heart) himself.  She also had a chest x-ray and EKG.  He came out of the room and told us she looked great and he had no plans to see her again!  We were so thrilled to hear this news.  It was again, unbelieveable to me.  Is this really what "normal" feels like?  Shortly after this she also had her hearing tested, and she passed with flying colors!  Woo hoo!  We were celebrating big time after all this great news.
Kerigan had a lot of special visitors come to meet her.  Jean and her daughter Sherri came to visit first.  Sherri works at Mercy, so it was nice having her stop by.  They are special friends of ours who also had a place at the lake with us for years.  I have so many special memories of their family.

Uncle Jason, Aunt Rachel, Evie and Jayden also came to meet their niece/cousin.

And my best friend Alissa stopped to visit also.  She is also expecting her second baby in October- and she just found out it is a boy!  I was so thrilled to hear this... her daughter Lilly has the most adorable clothes that she will be passing on to us!  Yay!  Ha!  Plus, their son will be Kerigan's little boyfriend.  They will be in the same room at day care and will grow up together, just like Andrew and Lilly.
I have been having so much fun having a daughter and dressing her up in all her adorable outfits and big bows!  It is too much fun!  
 The other night in the hospital I was on the laptop and Kerigan was lying beside me in her boppy and she was so wide awake and alert (this was about 11:00pm!  Ha!)  She was so precious, her big eyes just looking up at me so sweetly.  
 Finally she drifted off to sleep... I love how her little hands are folded.
 Going home day!  We came home on Friday, July 15.  I loved dressing her up in her going home outfit and pink bow.  I had it picked out for several months- Ga Ga bought it for her.  She just looked adorable.
I still can't get over how big she looks here.  She fits into her car seat perfectly.  It is so funny, we have a picture taken in this same spot when we brought Andrew home, and you can barely see him!  

On going home day, Kerigan had only lost 3% of her birth weight (normal is 10%).  She weighed 7lb 14oz.  She had her one week check up today and she already weighs 8lb 2oz (1oz more than her birth weight).  She is eating like a champ!  We just love having her home.  It couldn't get much better than this!

We love you sweet Kerigan!  You have made our family complete.


Saturday, July 16, 2011

Her name speaks volumes

Kerigan-
Many people have commented about the uniqueness of Kerigan's name.  I wanted to write about how special her name is, so we have it in the "journal."
 Some of you may remember a past post about a name that Craig and I had always loved, and we always thought we'd name our daughter... well, throughout the pregnancy, that name changed.  A few years ago in my 2nd grade class, I had an adorable little girl named Kerigan.  I had never heard the name before, but I loved it right away (plus, it helped that she was such a sweet little girl!)  It is hard as teachers to name your kids, because it seems like there is always a name you love but had a student that you just can't name your kid after!  Ha!
As the pregnancy went on, my mind kept coming back to "Kerigan." Then I made the connection with my mom's name, Kari (which is officially spelled "Keri.")
And that is how her name came to be.
My mom is an amazing person.  She is the most selfless person I know.  I can't even explain how much she helps me and will drop everything she is doing any time I need her.  I am truly the luckiest person in the world to have her for my mother. 
 She is also an amazing grandmother.  Andrew adores her.  What makes her so special to him is the time she spends with him, and that she gives him her undivided attention every time they are together.  He is the most important thing to her, and he knows it.  I am so happy I was able to give her another grandchild- this time, a granddaughter.
Kerigan is her very special birthday gift.  Today is my mom's birthday.  They are four days apart.  Another reason for the namesake.
Kerigan is such an amazing gift to our family.  With the kind of relationship my mom and I have, I longed for a daughter so badly.  I can only thank God for giving me the best teacher in the world- my mom.  I pray that I can raise my daughter the way that she raised me, and that my daughter and I will share the same bond.
Mom and I can't wait to dress her up in her Christmas dress and take her to the Rockettes someday!  Or take her to see "Annie" or "Mary Poppins" at the Civic Center.  All special memories of things my mom did with me.  I have the best childhood memories, and I try especially hard to make sure my kids will too.
 My mom has taken care of Andrew all week while we've been in the hospital.  She stayed last night on our first night home to help us out too.  So she woke up here on her birthday morning and we had a special celebration in honor of her!  We had a delicious butter braid.
And Andrew was so excited to give her the gift from him and Kerigan.
My mom loved her name bracelet with Andrew's name.  A couple weeks ago I searched her house and found the bracelet so I could take it to add a string- Kerigan's name.  I just love the way it turned out (mom did too!)
 Mom, Kerigan will always be your namesake.  She doesn't know it yet, but she is the luckiest little girl on the planet!  You are her Grandmother.  Someday I know she will consider it an honor to have been named after someone so special in her life.

Irene-
One of the most special memories I have is of my mother and father and how much they loved each other.  Kerigan's name not only honors my mother, but my father as well.  The other most important person in my life.  Her middle name, Irene, was the name of my dad's mother.  My dad also had a very special relationship with his mother, and he used to tell me all about her.  I know many special stories about my grandma Irene, who I never had the privilege to know, but who has always held a special place in my heart because of how much I loved my father.  Irene passed away when my dad was only 15 years old.  It was so hard for him to lose his mother at such a young age, but her love for him made a huge impact on the rest of his life.  It is an honor for me to be able to name my daughter after my Grandma Irene.  

I know God sent us Kerigan Irene so that we could give her a life of love, and teach her how to honor the God that gave her to us.  I am so proud that her name honors two of the most special people in my life.
My mom and dad.

Happy Birthday Mom!  You are so loved.

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